# Objective
Some methods and commands carelessly overwrite `Relationship`
components. This may overwrite additional data stored at them which is
undesired.
Part of #19589
## Solution
A new private method will be used instead of insert:
`modify_or_insert_relation_with_relationship_hook_mode`.
This method behaves different to `insert` if `Relationship` is a larger
type than `Entity` and already contains this component. It will then use
the `modify_component` API and a new `Relationship::set_risky` method to
set the related entity, keeping all other data untouched.
For the `replace_related`(`_with_difference`) methods this also required
a `InsertHookMode` parameter for efficient modifications of multiple
children. The changes here are limited to the non-public methods.
I would appreciate feedback if this is all good.
# Testing
Added tests of all methods that previously could reset `Relationship`
data.
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Co-authored-by: Alice Cecile <alice.i.cecile@gmail.com>
